“I live my life by kicking goals” Author’s misinterpretation of a Tom Waits song.
Getting ourselves emotionally, mentally, spiritually and physically in tune requires some goals to be set and these goals need to be inspiring enough for you to want to achieve them. Goal setting in all areas of your life is a fantastic way of organising yourself and really achieving your desire outcomes not just in business. I have always likened it to a recipe, a recipe for life if you will – get the best ingredients, following the instructions, add a bit of your own inspiration and spice, control the heat and serve with style.
Let us get back to the basics so if you have never really set goals before this will help you start. The most important part of setting goals is to determine the goal is want you really want not what others may have.
The source of the things you truly desire must come from within and be exciting enough to drive you out of bed in the morning with bucket loads of energy. Your life or business goals must have real meaning and scare the beebers out of you. Reach for the damn moon. Go for platinum. Stretch yourself but make sure you fookin mean it.
Take time out to get yourself ready to plan – yes you are now going to plan your life – every bit of it. Up at 4.30am forget yoga, forget the dog, review, reset, renew your goals.
Many successful business people may appear as though they have no set goals or they don’t write their goals down or they rarely think in these terms. Bastards!!
I look at that and think:
“Hmm that’s interesting but they are at the top of the ladder already and I’m not there yet so I will do whatever it takes to join them no matter how corny or obvious the recipe for success appears”.
You need to write your goals down, I say, everyday. Get them under your nose and in your DNA so you actually drag yourself kicking and screaming towards them. Even though your a business owner your goals should be set for your whole life. Being in business isn’t the only area that needs goal settings to be successful. Great business but terrible family life… eh?
Goals: Being Effective!
Personal Goals – How do you continually grow to be bigger, better and stronger so that you can give and receive effectively. What are you doing right now (besides reading this post) that is helping you gain knowledge and learn new things and improve your skills in life?
Energy – How do you feel?- fit and healthy all the time? Are you eating and exercising enough as well as sleeping well? This will effect your effectiveness as a business owner right here!
Relationships – Are you cultivating great relationships on all levels – with your partner, children business associates and friends and how do you balance your time with them so as to be effective as possible?
Finance – Why are you cash strapped and never seem to have enough money? How do you control your debt and become financially independent? How are you going to get rich anyway?
Community – How do you give back to your fellow man to the best of your abilities? What indelible mark can you leave behind as a legacy for the benefit of others? What positive difference can you make to someone’s life right now?
Connected – How are you dealing with your spiritually? What are you doing so your belief in yourself and the universe are working together to create a sense of inner peace and harmony? When you look in the mirror are you proud of the reflection?
Business Goals: Get the journal and pen out and start writing…
Imagine setting these goals as if you only had six months to live, I’m sure your focus and intent would magnify greatly. So lets begin the process of setting your goals in preparation for some real action.
Seven Golden Rules To Setting Goals
Give A Compelling Reason – Why on earth do you want to do that? – To achieve a goal you need a good reason for even starting the goal. Your reason or reasons must be compelling enough for you to want to follow through and complete the goals you have set for yourself.
Write Your Goals Down – This will help stamp your memory and remind your subconscious to get working on your goals. It’s also helpful if you have many goals giving you enormous satisfaction crossing out the goal(s) when you have reached them.
Be Very Specific – make sure your goal is full of details – dates, times and amounts so it is easier to measure your achievements.
Smaller goals – Having major specific goals is great however your bigger goals will need to be broken down and divided into smaller workable chunks. Having completed smaller goals whilst contributing to your larger goal will keep you encouraged and motivated to keep moving forward.
You Need A Deadline – A specific date is necessary when setting your goals this helps you discipline yourself to achieve that goal and will help eliminate procrastination.
Aim High – Challenge yourself with your goals this will motivate you to set your standards well above what they currently maybe. Look up, stimulate your mind, think hard and move in the direction of your goal no matter how difficult it may seem at the beginning. Make sure your goals are realistically set and achievable with the right amount of effort.
Outcomes – Measure your outcomes on your achievements not any other factor. If it’s not working duck and weave or pivot. Change course, research – do what ever the hell it takes but pay attention please!
Goal setting is so important to do its worth taking a short holiday to a neutral place and spending up to three days planning. Get the physical tools you may need – a wall planner, a diary (electronic or paper), a list of things you need to do right away and people you will enlist to help you. Yes its goals, goals, goals – small, medium and large – you have got to have this activity done by that date, preparatory work by tomorrow afternoon no excuses, set yourself up for success – the race is on and the starter’s gun nearly blew your head off – get going!!!
Next is planning the action and then actioning the plan and plenty of action is the key – find out what massive action you have to take to achieve your bodacious goals and get on with it. Goals are a waste of time unless you act – they are merely your list of things to do and by when – and you and I know that the time is NOW!